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No, Donald Trump, Jr., Women Shouldn’t Have to ‘Handle’ Sexual Harassment in Order to Work

In 2013, when Donald Trump, Jr. was a mere boy of 35, he went on Opie and Anthony and stuck both Gucci-clad feet firmly in his mouth. Of course, since no one in 2013 really cared about Donald Trump, Jr., the interview stayed forgotten — until BuzzFeed (and then The Huffington Post) reminded us about it late last night.
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In the course of this interview, Trump asserted:

  • That women who “can’t handle some of the basic stuff that’s become a problem in the workforce today” — e.g., sexual harassment — “don’t belong in the workforce.”
  • That they should instead “go maybe teach kindergarten.”
  • That he could sue the hosts if he felt uncomfortable, and make a mint: “This is my get-rich-quick scheme. I’m now suing you guys because I feel uncomfortable.”

Phew. There’s so much wrongness to address here. Let’s take it in reverse order, shall we?

  1. People who sue for sexual harassment do not get rich, quickly or otherwise.

Suing is always risky business, even when a case has merit and the plaintiff is willing to spend a considerable chunk of time and money to bring it to trial. A Slate Explainer from 2011 referenced one study that found median settlements of $30,000 in cases that went before a magistrate judge, and another that showed average awards of $217,000 for those that went before a jury.

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Neither is chump change, but even the higher amount isn’t enough to live on forever, especially once legal fees and lost wages are taken into account. Furthermore, only about 40 percent of cases that make it to trial are decided in favor of the plaintiff.

In short, it’s not worth it to sue frivolously for sexual harassment. If you’re surprised by that, you’re probably not female. So many women experience harassment at work (one in four, one in three, or other shockingly high numbers, depending on your source), and so few sue or make a complaint. It would be hard to live in this culture and think that a protracted legal battle would lead to riches.

  1. Kindergarten teachers are part of the workforce.

I cannot believe that we actually need to say this, but teachers are part of the workforce — underpaid, underappreciated, under-resourced members of the workforce, to be sure, but members of the workforce all the same.

If there’s one thing Republicans and Democrats generally agree on, at least in theory, it’s that children are the country’s greatest resource. Donald Trump, Jr., isn’t running for anything, but his statement, which basically amounts to saying that kindergarten teachers don’t have real jobs, is not great PR for his old man’s campaign.

  1. Sexual harassment is not “basic stuff” and it’s not something anyone should have to put up with, in order to earn a living and have a career.

Here, we come to our most important point: sexual harassment is not something anyone, male or female, should have to “handle,” so that they can stay in the workforce. It’s abusive, it’s discriminatory, and most criminal to a committed capitalist like Trump, it’s a waste of resources. You are not going to get the best ideas from the smartest people in the room, if some of them are fighting off aggressive and inappropriate behavior instead of doing their job.

Work is both rewarding and trying. There are definitely less-than-ideal circumstances that you should expect to handle, if you want to work. It’s just that sexual harassment is in no way one of them.

A few tough things that you should expect to deal with in the workforce (keeping in mind that according to Donald Trump, Jr., “the workforce” apparently means finance or professional/business services):

  • Working with colleagues with different ideas, personality types, learning styles, and priorities than yours.
  • Doing your best work, and still not always getting the promotion or raise you deserve, when you deserve it; putting in long hours, and having a client go to someone else.
  • Gritting your teeth through the thousand small annoyances of working in a group with other humans, including (but not limited to) listening to people chew/talk/argue in an open-plan office, getting interrupted right as you’re about to go into the zone, and dealing with everyone’s moods when pressure is high and resources are thin.

What you shouldn’t expect to deal with in the workforce:

  • …“[U]nwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical harassment of a sexual nature.”
  • “Offensive remarks about a person’s sex” including “making offensive comments about women in general.”
  • …“[Harassment that is] so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired or demoted).”

Those last three bullet points are quoted from the EEOC’s definition of sexual harassment. The EEOC also notes that sexual harassment can take place between two people of any sex, including the same sex — and that “the law doesn’t prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious.”

In other words, anyone who’s looking for a get rich quick scheme would be better off trying almost anything else but a sexual harassment suit. For example, they might try being born Donald Trump, Jr. But for the next few days at least, the costs are likely to be too great to make it worthwhile.

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8 Comments on "No, Donald Trump, Jr., Women Shouldn’t Have to ‘Handle’ Sexual Harassment in Order to Work"

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F. Dunn
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I am a survivor of sexual harassment in the workforce and IT IS an everyday thing that we all have to deal with. I believe some of the things you spoke about were taken out of context, which would be real convenient for your article. The tone was very anti-Trump and I for one, as a survivor, do not appreciate that. Keep it general and do not bring a political candidate and their families into it and then maybe I’ll consider what you’re saying.

Gwen
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I think the timing of this article is extremely inappropriate for you to use Donald Trump Jr.’s name. Many will not understand that you are quoting the son and not the father. Has this forum become a campaign for Hillary? As a woman, I totally agree with F. Dunn’s comments. Any potential that this article has of changing the sexual harassment in the work environment has been canceled due to the political tone of this article. How disappointing!

Jeff
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Amen. Just unsubscribed from this site.
So sick of thinly veiled hit pieces acting as career advice.
The only way this crap will end is to have it affect subscribers!

Charles C
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How old are you? Do you know anything about the Clintons? Your article is ignorant, self-satisfying, dimwitted Lena Dunham-type crap. Here are some quotes from HILLARY about Bill’s victims. “These women are trash. Nobody’s going to believe them” “I mean, I would crucify her” “trailer-trash” “We have to destroy her story” “she’s a narcissistic loony tune” Hillary also tore apart a 12 year old girl – a rape victim – on the stand while defending and eventually getting a child rapist set free….and laughed about it. And why does Chelsea look nothing like Bill and exactly like Webb Hubbell? (He… Read more »
Jeff
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Unsubscribe folks!

I just unsubscribed from this site.
So sick of thinly veiled hit pieces acting as career advice.
The only way this crap will end is to have it affect subscribers!
Looking below, it appears that EVERYONE sees this for what it is, and only 1 person liked it.

Bill B.
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My thoughts? Well first I don’t think anyone needs to put up with real sexual harassment, but there is a difference between a normal attraction being communicated to someone and harassment. And I think you are in the tank for Hillary, which is a sure bet for our country’s downfall. Using your article to expose to all of is that your organization is against Trump. So, I will be deleting my account with your company.

Deborah Colton
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I’m 60 this year and I’ve been in the workforce since 1976 so of course I’ve experienced not only sexual harassment, but gender pay scale inequality and all the other issues women face in the workplace. What I appreciate even less, are women who treat these issues like it’s something new– invented by the Trump men. The truth is women DO need to be able to choose how and when they fight these battles in the workplace–even today. You can’t legislate ethics or morals and you can’t shame people –even in a public forum–into behaving the way you’d like them… Read more »
T (yes, just T)
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I am also a survivor of sexual harassment on multiple occasions in more than one workplace and appreciated this article. I also did not sue the pants off (very bad pun intended!) the company in which the harassment was most blatant and pervasive. The anti-Trump sentiment is just fine with me. I like your writing style and your bio tag. I like that you cite your sources for the statistics you present, and I like that you acknowledge kindergarten teachers too 🙂 In regards to Donald Trump, Jr., vs. Sr., does it really surprise anyone that he made the statements… Read more »
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